Because this is where he's sending people ( Read more... )

On Thursday, I went to court to get the restraining order against my rapist renewed ( Read more... )

And no longer waiting; obviously there's a lot of stuff I can neither confirm nor deny, but: I had goals. All of them were achieved ( Read more... )

This is an interesting thing about batterer's intervention programs in the state of Massachusetts. I recommend that you check it out! Of particular interest, though not mentioned on the Mass.Gov site, is the fact that in order to begin a batterer's intervention program, the perpetrator must confess to the abuse. Not just "my partner/ex claims I did ( Read more... )

Last night, I went to a Buffy-themed burlesque show ( Read more... )

Achievement unlocked: Restraining order extended for another year ( Read more... )

I am posting this filtered for obvious reasons. (EDIT: Since made public ( Read more... )

* To highlight a good discussion in the comments: The hosts banned previous people after a pattern of years of sexual harassment and assault, and stated that my known rapist seemed like a danger only to me, despite his years of escalation; they banned him only after an unknown number of people complained about his presence. They banned me for ( Read more... )

The Restraining OrderI think I'm seeing a misconception about the RO, and I want to clarify it ( Read more... )

This post is the rest of the story about my violent rapist attempting to violate his restraining order to attend an annual party I always attend, while my foot was broken. Please read that post first ( Read more... )